Love Letter to My Daughter At 4 Years Old

I’ve been writing a love letter to my daughter on her birthday since she was born. I didn’t always know how to write a letter to my daughter, as the emotions often overwhelmed my ability to get the words out, but I learned with practice. I had no idea how the incredible the parenting adventure would be or how much it would change my life. I had no idea how much I’d fall in love with this incredible girl I am blessed to raise. So this love letter to my daughter on her birthday will hopefully sum up a few of the amazing experiences, moments and messages we’ve enjoyed as parents to this thrilling girl.

Love Letter to My Daughter on Her Birthday

Happy Birthday Love Letter

As a baby, I was desperate to protect her. As a toddler, I was challenged to develop her. As a preschooler now, I’m in awe of her. She would tell you herself: we are not friends – I am her mother, and she is my daughter – as it seems that relationship trumps all others in her sweet mind. But I’d be lying if I didn’t say she’s pretty much everything I need in a friend. In one week from today, who once was my tiny baby and who will surely grow to be the definition of success for my life, my daughter will turn four years old. I’m not sure how I lucked out so immensely, but this happy birthday love letter is for her.

To my daughter, happy 4th birthday!

I have so much to tell you. So much to share. I’m honored for the opportunity to write this love letter to my daughter on her birthday!

The biggest change in our day to day lives has definitely been your attendance at preschool. It’s been 6 months now and you love going, but I have to admit there are changes brewing. You are a smart girl, Alina – not crazy book smart, but you adsorb pretty much anything I throw at you. Between your character and maturity (and your birthday that restricts when you start school) we’re still trying to figure out what’s best for your education. Next year will bring another preschool year (Pre-K), and we’re not sure the direction we plan to take just yet. Is it homeschool? Is it Spanish language school? Only time will tell…

Speaking of education, we’ve taken on reading and you love it. This was a big deal for me, as I was terrified of teaching you the wrong way, but that was really silly. Learning to read has become your goal and we’re well on our way a firm understanding of phonics. I’m so amazed by you! The first time we were out and you read text out in the world, I bust out in tears!

My sweet, beautiful girl… I am SO excited for the world of literature to open up for you! I’m so excited for high quality, relevant books to enter our lives and show you how beautiful and lyrical this world can be. Books changed my childhood, and I sincerely hope they impact yours.

Message to My Daughter

Birthday Message for a 4 Year Old Daughter

While I want to rave about how happy and joyful you are at 4 years old, there are certainly parts of you that are incredibly mature and serious. You can be silly, to be sure, but your core is a sensitive girl. The person that makes you laugh hardest is definitely your little brother- he doesn’t have to do much, and he loves it when you do, but wow can that boy send you in an all out LOL fit.

You are also very literal. As I mentioned before, we couldn’t possibly be friends – we’re mother and daughter – and if I give you a rule, you stick to it. If I say we’re going to do something, you hold me to it. You don’t drink soda. You don’t use “lazy words”. All because you agree with a standard I place. You’re principled… and I love it.

You love our family – your dad, me, brother, the dogs and our house, in that order. Every single time. And I love that you love your foundation so much. Even with the exposure of school, you’d still rather be here than anywhere else. You are equally as picky with friends.

My sweet beautiful girl,

I adore your brother. Your daddy is the foundation of my whole life. But this year is all about you and me. I have big plans for this summer, for the next school year, for today. Plans, big and small, that will connect us and make you grow – in bilingualism, in identity, in knowledge. But also in your understanding that your mom will always be here for you.

The years in which you stay underneath me hugged tight to my legs for safety or just to drive me crazy, are slowly slipping past me. I want to bottle up this year and keep it close to my heart for the rest of my life. You’re 4 years old, baby girl! And mama is so proud.

Te querio por siempre,

Su Mama