If you’reasking yourself “why my hair is so dry?”, you’ve come to the right place! Taking care of curly hair during the cold, winter months is super important. Though it looks strong, dry curly hair is most susceptible to breakage, which prevents growth and length many of us are looking for. In the winter, my hair is dry and the curls lackluster.
Dry Curly Hair: The Struggle
Some reasons why your curly hair is so dry are if you’re running a forced-air heater which sucks up the moisture in the air and/or regularly wearing scarves, big jackets, and beanies + hats that rub on our curls too?
The hot, hard water most of us use to shampoo our curls can also be a problem. Kids are playing indoors more, meaning lots of rolling around on the floor or rubbing their healthy, super curly hair along couches and chairs. Talk about hair breakage! These best hair care products for dry curly hair are also great for your winter hair care routine.
Related: Ultimate List of Mixed Kids Hair Products
Winter Hair Care
Winter hair care is a real struggle for those of us with naturally curly hair. All of this started when I was researching how to get curly hair back. I just had a baby, my once vibrant curls were on life support and the winter hair care routine I followed was pitiful. I needed help that was easy, to the point and relied on great curly hair products. Unfortunately, the products to make your hair curly can dry it out in addition to all the environmental aspects. Here are a few curly hair tips to help with dry hair during this time of year.
Below are a few of our dry hair tips and also 6 Hair Products for Curly Hair that work great for curly and wavy hair! My wavy curly hair needs extra hydration and protectant sealant during winter, which also helps protect my daughter’s texture too.
Related: FAQ: How to Manage Curly Mixed Hair
Curly Tip! Only shampoo your scalp: Washing curly hair is so misunderstood. Apply a very small amount of shampoo on your scalp, massage into scalp making sure to remove any buildup, and rinse thoroughly. Unless the hair is very dirty, you do not need to pull the shampoo all the way through to the ends. Curly hair isn’t oily, so no need to strip the moisture away.
Frizzy Dry Hair Tips
These winter hair care tips are in addition to the regular mixed hair care routine that is linked above. Our focus is always on moisturized, healthy curls, but when dryness and frizz try to ruin our hair day, we move to the best products for curly frizzy hair and focus on moisture retention through protective styles.
Below we’ll look at parts of our normal hair routines with a few reminders for cold-weather hair care, and share 6 of our favorite products for curly hair treatment and best products for dry hair ends.
Shampoo for Frizzy Curly Hair
The best shampoos for dry curly hair are the ones that lack sulfates and ingredients acting as a detergent and strip essential oils from the hair shaft. Even some natural curly hair products can strip oils (ones containing tea tree oil), so read ingredients carefully. Generally speaking, natural hair product lines that offer a COWASH will work well as a shampoo for frizzy curly hair.
Best Conditioner for Curly Hair
Creamy conditioner for curly hair is absolutely vital! The best curly hair products are ones that penetrate the hair shaft with moisture and then seal the products in, like hair creams, hair oil and leave-in conditioners.
This is (at least) a two-step process, so making sure you understand how to best moisturize your curls is the first step to taking care of curly hair. You need to consider your hair texture, hair porosity and density selecting products. For instance, we talk a bunch about low porosity and our favorite low porosity products in the posts linked below. Check out the posts below to help you out.
Related: Low Porosity Hair 101 and Best Products for Low Porosity Hair
Curly Tip! Don’t forget the ends: The hair on your head is more healthy then the hair towards the end on the same hair shaft strand! The hair closer to the scalp retains the most moisture. The ends become frizzy and dry if you don’t tend to them diligently. Unlike with shampoo, make sure you’re pulling conditioning products all the way down and working the ends.
Why is My Hair So Dry?!
Once moisture is added to dry hair, sealing products are applied to close the hair cuticle shaft. If you just left water or conditioners on curly hair without a sealant, it quickly turns to frizz once dry. Hair oils are great for this step! Consider if your hair works best with the LOC method (liquid, oil, cream) or the LCO method.
In old days, curly girls used lots of gel and mousse for curly hair that contained tons of alcohol and drying ingredients. Products are so much better nowadays, so study your curl texture, porosity and density and choose products that work best for you. Our favorites are below
Hair Tools & Protective Styles
It’s wise to keep hair up and away from the constant rubbing on scarves, big jackets, beanies etc, but when especially so during cold months when dry hair can wreak havoc. If you’re tending to your mixed kid’s hair, the same goes for car seats. When dry hair meets abrasive material, you are prone to breakage. And that sucks! Breakage means split ends and shorter ringlets.
If and when you use a hair tie, DO NOT RIP IT OUT. Keep a pair of scissors handy and cut the hairband out. It’s better to cut the hair versus rip it out. If breakage is going to happen, reduce the damage by using sharp scissors to remove the knot.
Related: How to Sleep with Curly Hair
Products for Dry Hair
Shea Moisture Jamaican Black Castor Oil Strengthen & Restore Shampoo
Using rice proteins, this shampoo smoothens frizzy curls by thickening individual strands. Decent price and easy to find at most stores.
Devacurl No-Poo Decadence Milk Cleanser
A little on the pricey side, but easily one of the best shampoos for dry curly hair. The milk proteins are soothing for my frizzy hair and conditions our curls perfectly. We keep this in our curl stash always if our budget allows.
As I Am Coconut Cowash Cleansing Conditioner
A staple in our curly cabinet! For as much as I love this curly hair product, I’m not a fan of the jar (and the quantity: price ratio). Seems silly perhaps, but I prefer a bottle and pump.
Moroccan Argan Oil, USDA Certified Organic
This is our absolute favorite oil! Argan oil is lightweight and super moisturizing. A little goes a long way, and low porosity doesn’t need THAT much oil to begin with, so we always keep a little jar of this at home and focus on applying it on the ends of their curls to prevent damage and breakage.
tgin Honey Miracle Hair Mask Deep Conditioner With Raw Honey
tgin's Honey Miracle Mask is amazing. It is the best protein-free deep conditioner we've tried. We bought our first hair steamer and are excited to implement heat in our deep conditioning for best curl definition using this deep conditioner with a few drops of low porosity hair oils.
100% Mulberry Silk Pillowcase for Hair and Skin
We always use a satin pillowcase for the curly girls at home. Well, for our curly boy too! I even slipped one over the headrest of her car seat when she was a toddler, too.
Satin Lined Jersey Beanie
Loose and down curly hairstyles are beautiful, but during the winter months, you might want to think about protecting those tresses with braids, twists or other protective hairstyles instead.
Always Eleven Satin Lined Knit Beret Hat
A beautiful knit beanie, perfect for winter fashion, but with a satin lining that is best for curly hair.
Curly Hair is Beautiful!
Textured, curly hair is the most fragile to care for and also the most rewarding to style and wear. Natural curly hair hasn’t always gotten the love that straight hair does, but I want my kids to know most about caring for their ringlets! Our curly hair is unique, beautiful and made on purpose.
Related: Baby Curly Hair 101 and Toddler Curly Hair Routine
And for those of us with kids in school, be sure to check out How to Protect Your Curls From Lice + Nasty Nits!
Olivia
January 27, 2015 at 3:40 pmMy hair is always bigger on colder days than on warmer days (during winter that is) but it’s practically frizz and not curls! Then throughout the day it actually goes flat… No one else I know talks about their hair shrinking through out the day… Any tips?
Vanessa Bell
January 29, 2015 at 9:43 pmHi Olivia! Without knowing much about your hair type, I’d say that shrinkage is normal as hair dries out. Do you mean shrinkage, as in it looks shorter, or the volume goes away? During the winter, practice protective styles that retain moisture and use hydrating products. Sorry I couldn’t be of more help!
Olivia
February 3, 2015 at 8:46 amThe volume goes away completely.
Vanessa Bell
February 4, 2015 at 9:59 amYou think so? Thanks for the comment Olivia, but I have to respectfully disagree… my girl’s hair has volume (and healthy ringlets) for days. Perhaps your hair texture is more fine?
Olivia
February 5, 2015 at 5:44 pmMost likely. Maybe I am doing something wrong when I go to bed or after my showers. I have no clue what to do with my hair half of the time… If you don’t mind me asking, what exact products do you use on your daughter’s hair that leaves those ringlets in?
Olivia
February 3, 2015 at 5:23 pmThe volume goes away. Also what would those hydrating products be? Which one’s do you suggest?
Merchon Hargrave
May 25, 2017 at 2:20 pmThese are all such great tips. It is not easy keeping those gorgeous curls protected! Have you cut your daughter’s hair yet? I haven’t and don’t think I will need to for a while but am going to be such a nervous wreck when I do!
Adley Miller
November 13, 2018 at 2:13 amReally a nice article on winter hairstyle for curly hairs. Loved it a lot while reading. Keep posting such nice related articles with hair care. Thank You.