Maya Angelou died yesterday at the age of 86. I called my husband and cried, mourning for Dr. Maya Angelou’s loss, but mostly for me. So today, I want to honor Maya Angelou by offering readers her best love poems and the Maya Angelou love quotes that guide my heart. These marriage poems are integral to our lives. But especially important to share are the Maya Angelou love poems that were the wedding reading launching the birth of my interracial marriage.
Marriage Poems
On the day Maya Angelou passed away, my husband listened through the tears and told me that I was loved and safe, reminding me yet again that the Maya Angelou love quotes I anchor my life on continue to be beacons that guide my legacy. I continue to lean on her words as I raise mixed race children. Maya describes love to be bold and brave. And on the day I married this beautiful black man, I was bold. I’d been liberated by love.
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Maya Angelou Love Poem
Maya Angelou Wedding Poems
A year before my wedding, a friend and I went to see Maya Angelou speak at The Cashman Field Center in Las Vegas. For as long as I live I will look back on that experience with gratitude. I held my 1980s copy of I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings, the scribbles of my younger years etched into the pages where my ticket stub still sits, and as Maya Angelou walked onto the stage, I cried. Much like I’m doing now. Her legacy demands as much.
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Maya was much taller and bigger than I expected for a woman her age. She stood at a solo mic for her entire talk. Her voice was intensely deep. It shook the room. But I can’t remember what she said, only that I was happy.
On my wedding day, as we navigate the roads of interracial marriage, when becoming a ferocious mother raising multiracial children and so many time since that day 5 years ago, I summon the courage of these Maya Angelou quotes and love poems. “Touched by an Angel” was read at our wedding by my best friend and the words still echo true. This love has liberated me.
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Maya Angelou Love Poem
Touched By An Angel Maya Angelou
We, unaccustomed to courage
Exiles from delight
live coiled in shells of loneliness
until love leave its high holy temple
and comes into our sight
to liberate us into life.
Love arrives
and in its train comes ecstasies
old memories of pleasure
ancient histories of pain.
Yet if we are bold,
love strikes away the chains of fear
from our souls.
We are weaned from our timidity
In the flush of love’s light
we dare be brave
And suddly we see
that love costs all we are
and will ever be.
Yet it is only love
which sets us free.
Maya Angelou Love Poetry
10 years later, my husband and I are still married and raising our mixed-race family the best we can. Every day isn’t easy, but there’s no way we could have gotten this far without the other. When we renew our marriage vows, Alone by Maya Angelou will be our wedding reading.
Alone, Maya Angelou
Lying, thinking
Last night
How to find my soul a home
Where water is not thirsty
And bread loaf is not stone
I came up with one thing
And I don’t believe I’m wrong
That nobody,
But nobody
Can make it out here alone.Alone, all alone
Nobody, but nobody
Can make it out here alone.There are some millionaires
With money they can’t use
Their wives run round like banshees
Their children sing the blues
They’ve got expensive doctors
To cure their hearts of stone.
But nobody
No, nobody
Can make it out here alone.Alone, all alone
Nobody, but nobody
Can make it out here alone.Now if you listen closely
I’ll tell you what I know
Storm clouds are gathering
The wind is gonna blow
The race of man is suffering
And I can hear the moan,
‘Cause nobody,
But nobody
Can make it out here alone.Alone, all alone
Nobody, but nobody
Can make it out here alone.
Jennifer aka baby making mama
May 29, 2014 at 6:01 amBeautiful. Beautiful mama. I’m crying with you. Thank you for sharing this.
Debbie T
June 1, 2014 at 8:43 pmMy marriage is also interracial and read that poem during the ceremony. Thank you for sharing.
Shannon Phillips
June 4, 2014 at 3:28 pmAhhh .. I too cried last week that the “Queen”, Dr. Maya Angelou was gone. I was introduced to her books like you at an early age. She has been there every stage of my life. So, my dear Vanessa; I would have “balled my eyes out” if I were with you at her book signing. Lol! How do I know? I cried my eyes out at a book reading of Nikki Giovani’s in 1999 in NYC, and.. cried more when she signed my book. XOXOXO Sending hugs to you and may Miss Maya Sleep in Peace. Shay…
yanet
June 10, 2014 at 12:45 amhola chica. He pasado por lo mismo que tú. Me encontré tu página en Pinterest y me ha encantado. Soy cubana y vivo en CA hace unos 20 años. Me casé con un muchacho afroamericano o negro como dice él pues me repite que no es de Africa ;). Mis padres cubanos sufrieron mucho pero lo han aceptado después de muchas batallas. Tengo dos niñas preciosas y un matrimonio fuerte. Soy feliz. Gracias por tu página. Eres de Cuba? He encontrado mis platos favoritos en tu página. Bueno, besos y mucha salud.
Vanessa
June 10, 2014 at 3:33 amHola Yanet, Mucho gusto conocerte! Mis padres son de Cuba, pero nací aquí (pues, en California. Ahora estoy en Las Vegas). Entiendo la lucha de los interracial marriages, y por eso escribo de mi familia… para ensenar la vida linda que tenemos. Como tu, yo tambien soy feliz. Te mando amor y salud. xox
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Tatiana
May 26, 2015 at 7:46 pmMan I’m literally reading/ commenting on all of your blocks today.. (procrastinating from finals in highschool…yikes) Anyway, this might be a personal question, but I was wondering if when you married into an interracial relationship, if you got a lot of, maybe, negative vibes so to speak? I was also wondering if when going out and about, do people give your family strange looks or any sort of hostility? I may be out of place with asking these questions, but just know I ask these questions out of pure admiration and wonder.
Thank you so much for your time,
Tati
Vanessa Bell
May 28, 2015 at 11:39 amOh yes, Tati, plenty of negative. So much so that, when my daughter was born, I started this blog to block it all out and embrace the beauty of US: a mixed family that is normal and healthy and not at all filled with the bad stuff people said about us. Perhaps I’ll share those stories one day. Have you read my post on Surviving Interracial Marriage? That post will kind of speak on how we decided to move past the negative and closer to each other.
And please always feel free to comment and ask. You are never out of line. If ever you want a personal platform to chat, email me through the contact form above! xoxo, Vanessa
Daisy
September 14, 2015 at 8:44 pmVery touching write-up, it’s inspiring to see how she inspired you 🙂
Vanessa Bell
September 15, 2015 at 11:56 amThanks, Daisy. She’s a constant source of inspiration for so many of us <3
Laura
August 9, 2016 at 5:15 amTo a beautiful women. Inside and out. Happy anniversary… I love reading your post and admire you for courage to fight for whom and what you love. Remember we are all Gods children and he sees all of us the same color
God bless you and your beautiful family
Daquan Staley
March 27, 2018 at 11:07 pmVery touching. Im hoping one day I could find that happiness you guys have.